There was a story that kept showing up on Instagram recently and it went like this:

“It is really not a good idea to encourage your friends to complain about things to you. There is no value in assisting anyone to describe, in detail, their unhappy experiences.” Abraham-Hicks

This is suppressive and shaming.

What heals us is to unwind and sometimes that includes complaining. Sometimes that’s the only way to release it.

As I said in the video, of course we don’t want people complaining all the time over and over who don’t take responsibility for their lives. But even they must be in pain.

A teacher of mine once said “There is magic in the telling.” They also said “Feelings are the most real thing we have. The rest is an illusion.”

So let’s not do spiritual bypassing.

Let’s not shame people for not being positive and grateful all the time.

It’s spiritual BS.

When we get to feel our feelings we will come back into a more positive space. That happens naturally when people have permission to feel fully.

Feeling our feelings, speaking our truth when it’s uncomfortable IS a high vibration and a courageous space. High vibration isn’t trying to be positive when you are hurting inside.

That needs to be held and cared for.

Feel free to complain when you need to. 

XOXO

Anne

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